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Prayer | Sandy Hook Elementary

Every era brings forth new enlightenment, new technology, new discoveries, new terrors, a new strand of hatred, a new degree of violence. “The heart of man is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: Who can know it?” I came home today with full intentions of giving my 8 year old son a stern talking to for forgetting his homework at home again this week. Instead I just  hugged him, pinched him and kissed him all night. I understand that Sandy Hook Elementary school could of been, or possibly be, my son’s school. I thank God that tragedy passed over my door step and family today. At the same time I am deeply saddened that tonight, at this very moment 20 parents will not be able to pinch their child, hug their child and kiss their child all night.

The Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting is a horrific tragedy no child, parent, school administrator or community should have to experience. Today we witnessed the result of sin being introduced into God’s perfect creation. Today we as a country cried out in unison to the one source that could console us and give us strength, God. Please continue to pray for the victims, their families and the healing of this nation.

#takemyfoolishadvice I lift up my eyes to the mountains where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. (Psalms 121:1-2)

prayer-child

Beloved,

AWalk

Single and working for Christ

Most churches have a singles ministry but I will be honest, I have never joined. Over the years my interest has varied but never enough to take the plunge and venture inside a meeting. While what I am about to say next is far from the truth a part of me feels that Single Ministries have a stench of “desperation” attached to them. I know there main objective is not to play match maker but I don’t necessary feel comfortable with the labels and thoughts associates with it. Again, I will admit I’m an outsider looking in.

All these dating sites directed toward Christian singles only serves as added pressure to find your “soul mate”. The devil will sometimes use my feelings of loneliness and sadness, to make these mediums look more and more appealing. I’m not surprised when he dangles what appears to be something good in front of me just to separate me from the love of Christ.

While the lows and lengths of these lonely spells are few and far between they still occur. I find solace in reading, writing, mediating, find new adventures (small ones) to explore and/or adding projects to things I’m working on. The important part about doing these things is it allows feel good about myself and good about the people I’m serving. I feel more fulfilled when I am making good quality use of my time and God given talents. Those close to me will say that I work 24.5 hours a day just to stay busy enough. That is partially true and that is okay because I’ve never known someone to get in trouble by being busy at work and focused on Christ.

I do think that during my single life I’m able to work for Christ in a way married couples can’t. And being single is definitely a time to build, tear down and build again a relationship with Christ that will survive life; literally and figuratively. I enjoy the work that I do in my Lords name; it brings me true joy, happiness and peace. I do it because I love it and I want Christ to be proud of the work I’ve been able to do, for His kingdom, with the gifts he’s given me.  If I am to be married I want my husband to find me working in the church, for my family and community. I’m not sure yet why it’s so important to me but I’m content with knowing that it is for now. We can talk about this some more if you like. Feel free to also ask me questions on how to combat the lonely.

#takemyfoolishadvice being a Christian single is not a death sentence. The best is always what God has in store for you.

Beloved,

AWalk

Jesus Prays for YOU, personally!

Hey Guys,

I know this is really random but I wanted to share with you something that kind of blew my mind tonight. I attended a young adult meet-up and we discussed the Holy Bible, the book of John chapters 17 and 18. These two chapters touched my soul and moved me to tears.

In my mind I know that Jesus loves and cares for us, obviously, He died for us. I know this. And I also know that Jesus prays for us. But tonight knowing that and reading Jesus’ pray in John chapter 18 made my heart know, in a different way, just how much He loves us.  Jesus is in Heaven praying for ME, little ole me to make it; for me to truly be happy and joyful; for Me to be successful; for me to push through life’s obstacles and defeat the Devil; for me now to be lost to this world. It blows my mind. Before sunrise at the same time every morning you can find me in prayer. It blows my mind to think that Jesus may have a set time daily, weekly, hourly just for ME.

My heart and mind really connected in a different way tonight and I hope you guess can appreciate the realization I felt. Again, I know this is random but random is good some times. I recommend reading the chapters, they’re fairly short and a great read. Once you do read it come back and tell me what you thought of Jesus’ prayer. God Bless and stay strong Jesus is cheering you on to the finish line.

Beloved,

AWalk

Changes| What to Do Professionally? Pt.1

So ever since I could remember I always asked myself, “What are you going to do with your life?” Every year I would compose a goal sheet a map to success. My first one, that I actually still have, goes back to 1993. I was starting a new school and I just felt like… Okay this is the big leagues you have to have a solid plan to your ultimate goal. Poor thing, my ultimate plan kept changing. Most adults were often impressed with my forethought at such an early age. What they failed to understand was I wasn’t asking myself these questions and desperately seeking the answers out of maturity. It was more out of fear and the desire to save myself from failure and disappointment.

I was and slightly still am the type of person that ALWAYS wanted to know what was going to happen every step of the way. What is going to happen if I earn a degree in business as opposed to applied health? What will happen if I move to New York as opposed to Georgia, will there be better employment opportunities? What will happen if I decide to get married, will it last more than 5 years? Would I be happier single? What am I going to be like when I’m 60 years old, will I be happy with the chooses I’ve made? ALL THESE QUESTIONS AND NO DEFINITIVE ANSWERS. You know why there’s no definite answers, because I am not God and faith is built knowing that He has all of this figured out for us. Amen.

So fast forward 15-20 years…

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I Want to See You Fail

We seem to be a growing society that relishes in the failures of someone else. It is almost as if we are obsessed and instantly satisfied to see someone completely defeated. And I am not referring to a competitive nature. I am talking about finding comfort, solace in the failure of others solely to make one self feel better, more significant, confident and happy.  There is something gravely wrong and destructive with this type of mentality.

Amongst my family and closest friends, I always refer to our relationships as “Team Amy”. If you are not on “Team Amy” then you are not within my circle of trust (“Meet The Fockers” reference. I love that movie. LOL). Then you are not within my circle of love. You are not in my circle of joy, happiness, and sweet pleasure. I have felt the change in my personality, my physical and mental health and my spirit when I have someone with a negative, prideful and spiteful spirit around me. I’ve had to dissolve some friendships and even remove myself from certain family members because they were not on my team. Trust me when I say I am a happy and healthier Amy for it.

If you find yourself depressed all the time, check your team. If you’re always second guessing your God given capabilities because you have someone constantly telling you “why it’s not going to work out”, then check your team. If you have someone always reminding you of the no good person you used to be while you’re changing for the better now, check your team. If you have someone that’s always waiting, watching and gloating when they see someone else fail, don’t think you’re so special, they’ll probably do the same to you; check your team.

#TakeMyFoolishAdvice life is a gift from God and as long as sin exist it’s going to be tough whither you’re in this world by yourself or with a thousand people. You already have one devil to fight on a daily basis why comprise your team with more.

Surround yourself with positivity, people who love you and praise. I have been jamming to Marvin Sapp’s “Praise Him in Advance” all week. If you are trying to make some healthy and positive changes in your life then keep pushing, I’m on your team!

 

Beloved,

AWalk

A Huge Thank You!

If you were to ask me in November 2011 what the reach of takemyfoolishadvice.com would be in June 2012 I probably would have said my local area. The day I started this site, I prayed that it would reach at least one person and simply inspire or motivate them. So the problem with that answer is simply, I put a limit on what God can and will do for me. You all have inspired me.

I am so overjoyed and humble to share with you all that takemyfoolishadvice.com now has readers in over 74 countries; with top international readership in the United Kingdom, India and Canada. Welcome to the family Bangladesh, Serbia, Sri Lanka, Armenia and the Republic of Korea. In addition, since creating this site I have made a guest appearance of the Anderson Cooper Show sharing myfoolishadvice and started a book series. This is all a stretch of the imagination for me. I never would have dreamed any of this but I am grateful it is all happening. I look forward to the future.

Thank you all for helping my words, thoughts and dreams go international! You all have been a blessing to me.

#takemyfoolishadvice only follow your dreams if you’re going to trust in God.

P.S I can’t wait to visit some of these countries.

Beloved,
AWalk

Jesus Resurrection = Promise

Easter doesn’t mean bunny rabbits and egg hunts to me anymore. Instead it’s a reminder that Jesus died for me, little ole me, and me personally. I have come to love Jesus’s death and resurrection more and more because of the promise Jesus wrote to me in a love letter. “In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for. If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself, that where I am, there you may be also.” John 14:2-3

I hold that promise dear to my heart and it gives me hope and joy and love and peace knowing God wants me to be with Him, in Heaven; and not just me but those that I love as well.

#takemyfoolishadvice read God’s love letters to you some time, you just might come across a promise that He wrote to YOU.  

Beloved,

AWalk

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Featured: Meet Sergeant First Class Wavell Williams Jr, US Army

Last month the readership response to the Harriett’s, the amazing husband and wife duo that gave up their life in the United States to become missionaries in Africa, was amazing and you guys demanded more.

This month’s feature focuses on someone who is just as amazing. He’s smart, courageous, and his wife will describe him as “the most handsome husband, dad, and solider in uniform”.  Meet Sergeant First Class Wavell Williams Jr, US Army, 25B Information Systems Operator.

Before he had these honorable and distinguished titles before his name, I knew him as plain ole Wave. Too as far back as I can remember he always had a thrill seeking nature about him and never backed down to a challenge. Oldest brother to three naturally he is protective. When he had decided to enlist in the United States Army in 2000 my first thought was, the Army isn’t ready for Wave!  After his first year he returned home and paid me a visit at my parents’ house.  We sat on the porch and he described basic training, the camaraderie amongst fellow soldiers and the differences between army life and civilian life. The boy that I had once known transformed into a mature adult with priorities strictly aligned to meet clear and obtainable goals. It was apparent to me then that he was maturing into a man, a man of God, a man of character and virtue. He even had a little mustache to prove it. LOL.

After serving 4 tours in Iraq, Wave, age 30, has seen the best and worst of what people can do to each other. Through it all his personal relationship with God has allowed him to endure and see the silver linings of life. Still jumping out of the back of planes and protecting our freedom he now has made it his personal mission to share his love of aviation with family and friends. And what better way to do it then giving them the first-hand experience of a life time, having them ride co-pilot.

Climb aboard for my exciting interview with Sergeant First Class Wavell Williams Jr.

Meet Sergeant First Class Wavell Williams Jr. March 2012

 

What is your first love? real love – a woman…LMS (let me stop), the “other” love – aviation

Well I would hope your first love is a real woman. I’ve seen a few episodes of My Strange Addition. We share a laugh like old times as we reflect on some of the craziest episodes we’ve seen but then we’re focused again. So how will you use your love for aviation to change the way people view the world in 2012? By taking as many people, especially minorities, on a plane ride as soon and as much as possible. Hopefully inspiring them to begin a career in aviation. I got the chance to take my parents in flight with me. Both of them got a chance to feel my excitement for flying. I take many friends flying as often as I can and that usually changes their position on aviation.

Sergeant First Class Wavell Williams Jr. parents

My son has always had a fascination with planes. He’s 7 years old but he knows that he wants to build them one day. He was really excited to see your pictures.

I’m almost scared to ask but, what is the craziest thing you have ever done? Jumped out of a C-130 with 20 knot gusting winds in Iraq and landing on a near-concrete ground. Made for a great story. At that point, I had been a Paratrooper for 10 years and it was my 50th jump. It was also the fastest drop to the hardest, most complicated landing I’ve ever had. Ever.

You’re right that does make for a great story. President Obama has brought most of the troop’s home but the US economy is still in a slow moving downward slump. What opportunities, in your occupation, exist for other African Americans between 21-40 years old? NUMEROUS. The military is a melting pot of culture and races. One can come off the street and be trained to be part of a unit and then receive specialized training on a multitude of career fields. Many of the skills and trades taught in the Army can be transferred to civilian careers. Even though a lot of our men and women have been brought home, protecting our freedom is a job that will never end.

Everyone knows that a man in uniform doesn’t stand alone. There are family and friends awaiting your return. Thankfully your parents are still with us and you have two younger brothers. In addition, you’ve been married for 3 years; have 2 year old twins and a daughter on the way right now. Congratulations on the little ones! How does your work affect your spouse and family dynamics? It has a lasting effect every day. Sometimes with this career, you are called away suddenly to serve a purpose higher than your own. As a result you will miss anniversaries, birthdays, Christmases, New Years, birth of your children, weddings of your friends and a host of other things. It sucks, but at the end of the day when it’s all done and you’re coming home, I can usually say, it’s okay. For some reason, a decision was made and we must execute that decision. The family, while they may not always like it, is supportive.

Marriage, twins, baby on the way, husband that jumps out of planes defending our freedom for a living. Your wife is amazing; I can only imagine the juggling act she puts on every day to keep everything balanced. Sarcastically, with one eye brow raised high. So Wave, tell me, what amazing things have you done with and in your life thus far? Laughter takes over. Your wife is here just … you know… giving birth… two twins and another one on the way. We laugh and then I allow him to answer.   I’ve been the recipient of the highest achievement in life. Being a dad. Yes, I’ve got two boys and a girl on the way with an amazing wife that I adore that manages to do it all when duty calls. A distant second is earning a pilots certificate with an instrument rating and a complex/ high performance aircraft endorsement. Third would be learning to play the piano and learning how to teach music. That was pretty fun. But yes, my wife is amazing and what she does for our family is undeniable short of a miracle.

The twins on the job.
Cute! Period.

That is wonderful, hats off to good wives and good mothers. There are three questions that I like to ask everyone I interview, especially those that have had the opportunity to see the world.

What is your advice to other young adults that want to travel? Go to your local airport. Tell them you want to learn to fly. EARN your private pilot certificate and instrument rating. Travel wherever you want to go. See the world from the pilot’s chair, blog about it and take NUMEROUS pictures.

Friends in flight

Great advice! I’m praying that my son designs a spectacular aircraft that he can pick me up in. What should more 21-35 year olds be doing that they’re not? Saving for retirement. A lot of times I see my Soldiers with the latest car or clothing. I remember when I was that misguided. When I ask them of the future, they usually refer to the 50 meter (immediate) target and forget about the 300-meter target. The thing is, many times, it’s the 300-meter target that will take you out before the 50-meter even touches you. Moral of the story, plan for the future or you and your work will soon be reciting marital vows – til death do you part.

I’ve discussed financial topics often on the blog. I hope my readers really take your message to heart and #takemyfoolishadvice when it comes to budgeting and planned spending. What is a charity or cause you will support or continue to support in 2012? ADRA – Adventist Development and Relief Agency. I’ve been supporting them through the CFC – Combined Federal Campaign for years. They are one of the first relief organizations on ground during a disaster, so I support it.

Sergeant First Class Wavell Williams Jr. and dear friend, thank you for taking the time to allow us into your world. God’s grace has kept you well. I pray God’s continuous favor on you and your family. TMFA readers this will not be the last time we hear from the Sergeant, I will be sure to drop in with a picture of the that beautiful bouncing baby.

UPDATE: I was just informed that little Ms. Arieonna Elizabeth was born on February 26th 2012 at 6lbs 11 oz. 18 inches long. Both mother and baby are doing well. Congratualtions again to the Willimas’ family.

Arieonna Elizabeth

#takemyfoolishadvice you’re never too young to be an instrumental difference in your own life or the lives of others. It doesn’t take a special person to be called to defend the honor and virtue of millions. God used David to defeat Goliath. Decide today to use your life to do something amazing. Listen for your God given purpose and when you hear it, be sure to come back and share it with us in the comment section below.

Beloved,

AWalk

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Featured: Meet Andre & Coline Harriott

Andre & Coline Harriott

To kick off the new “Featured” series on takemyfoolishadvice I turned to two amazing young professionals that have an even more amazing story to tell. Meet one of my favorite young, black and married couple; Andre and Coline Harriott. These two brought the fairytale, boy meets girl… girl falls in love with boy… boy marries girl, to life. Andre and Coline met on the campus of Florida International University when they decided to pledge the brother and sister organization Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. and Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc.

At first Coline’s rough exterior kept Andre at bay. Back then as a college sophomore I encouraged Andre to #takemyfoolishadvice and snitched on everything I knew about Coline. I knew Coline was really intrigued by Andre and once she let her fully equipped military covert operations special forces guard down, she wouldn’t regret giving him a chance. Once the cat was out, Coline was caught up in love. The two married in beautiful Miami in June 2008. On their honeymoon to the captivating country of Ethiopia Andre and Coline were in enthralled with an experience of a lifetime and felt a vibrant connection to the land, its people, and a mission.

The happy couple on their wedding day.

 This New Year marked a lot more than New Year’s Resolutions in the Harriott household. Andre and Coline packed up all their belongings, kissed their family and friends goodbye, left their respective jobs in the construction management and healthcare industry to be missionaries in AFRICA. Check out my exciting interview with the couple and why you will be inspired to do more with your life below.
The Harriott’s leaving for Africa Jan. 2012

Meet Andre & Coline Harriott
February 2012

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How to teach your child about God

As my son got older I struggled with creating different ways to teach him about God. I didn’t just want to teach him but rather show him how to develop and nurture a spiritual relationship with Jesus. I started off with prayer, which we know is the single most important form of spiritual communication with Christ. I would encourage him to not only pray but to speak and give praise during his daily communion with the Lord. As he has grown I feel that the seasons are changing. About a year or two ago I introduced animated videos depicting amazing stories of the Bible. Now that he’s an avid reader we watch those videos and compare them to the literal stories in the Bible to identify differences and variations. This shift in teaching has been monumental, it’s a higher level of learning.

Prayer is a lifeline, that's the least you can teach them.

My son is engaged because it’s an animated film depicting a complex story in laymen terms. Now he’s able to take what he’s seen and put it into proper contexts when reading the Word. He is also learning to test biblical tools against the Word, the main source, to identify discrepancy. The Bible teaches us that in the end days there will be false prophets and false doctrines so it is vital for His people to know and understand the Word.

As a parent I do feel pressure at times to be a positive spiritual role model as well as teacher. I also want to be the type of parent that is a “doer” of the word, not just speak of it. Jacob knew who God was solely because of his father. He didn’t have a Bible like us; he had a parent that knew, trusted, and loved Christ. From that relationship alone Jacob knew that he should create and maintain the same type of relationship. That is what I want for my son.

#takemyfoolishadvice it’s never too late to teach your child about Christ and if you don’t know where to start, start with prayer. Then escalate to reading famous stories from the Bible and when you child is ready, encourage them to interpret what they understood from their lesson. This could be a reenactment through a short dramatization, a drawing/painting, or a story in their own words.  The most important thing is to simply start.  

Beloved,

 

AWalk

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