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6 year old arrested. Should you be spanking your child?

The Psychology of Human Development. I remember signing up for this class with hesitation. I thought it was so stupid, I’d be honest. For years I heard that the way a child is raised during their developmental years can shape or break their future. To be quite honestly I didn’t believe that whole heartedly. I believed that it was a factor but not a critical one. People have options when they make choices. I was prepared to learn all the origins of legal defenses commonly used to get society’s misfits less jail time.

Yesterday in the news we heard of 6-year-old Salecia Johnson who was handcuffed by police over an alleged ‘tantrum’ fit she had in her kindergarten class. Allegedly Johnson was sent to the principal’s office after bunching two of her classmates. Then she began tearing items off the school principal’s office walls and threw furniture. The report says Johnson knocked over a shelf that injured the principal. Johnson also was reportedly biting a doorknob and attempting to break a glass frame while jumping on top of a paper shredder.

The parents of Salecia Johnson had this to say, “She has mood swings some days, which all of us had mood swings some days, I guess that was just one of her bad days. To that I say, “Really…? Sigh! I wonder if a good spanking when this child acts like this at home would have kept that child in line.”

 

But back to the class. When it came to the topic of spanking Read the rest of this entry

Dating a man who’s taken? Are you attracted to him, or his wife/girlfriend?

by Gina B. of SixBrownChicks (www.chicagonow.com/six-brown-chicks)

Dating a man who's taken? Are you attracted to him, or his wife/girlfriend?

I respect relationships, and I’ve always made a practice of avoiding men who are taken. And by that, I mean men who are in relationships, engaged, and especially married men. Sadly, there are women who will date nothing but. Some will argue that those women have low self-esteem, commitment issues, a general lack of respect for other women, and a belief that man-sharing should be a common practice. I suppose that any or all of those things can be true, coupled with the fact that men who have women in their lives are more attractive.

Even the most evolved bachelors can be rough around the edges. Their lairs often need “a woman’s touch,” which generally means a sense of refinement and a hint of softness, a higher level of cleanliness, or the addition of decorative accessories that contribute to a cozier, more comfortable home.

A man’s personal appearance is usually improved as a result of a relationship. Most wives and girlfriends like to assist their men in selecting clothing and accessories that most single men don’t have the patience or inclination to choose.

I never understood the appeal of married men until I accidentally dated one for a few weeks, several years ago.

We met at a conference, through friends. He was different than most of the men that I normally met. While he was tall and naturally handsome, he was also very meticulously groomed with a precision haircut, lotioned hands and beautiful white teeth. He was attractive in his tailored suit and understated cufflinks that were a tasteful addition to his delicately monogrammed shirt. His shoes were expensive and were obviously regularly shined and stored in an organized closet, complete with cedar shoe trees. He wore just the slightest hint of cologne – detectable at a safe social distance, but also enough to entice a woman to want to bury her face in his neck. And there was no presence of a wedding ring.

He was a gentleman. He offered a drink, held my chair, and without asking, he took my jacket that I was holding uncomfortably and returned with a coat check claim. Read the rest of this entry

Are your family problems keeping you single?

Have you ever dated someone that didn’t have a good relationship with their immediate family? Do you have a single male friend that speaks very poorly of the women in his family? Or a single female friend that always have a problem with a certain race, height or masculine allure of a man? If you answered yes, it could very well be the reason why they are single!

Has it ever dawned on you that the way you treat the opposite sex in your immediate family is sometimes a clear indication to your mate of how you would treat them. One of my favorite questions to ask on the first date is, “Why do you love your mother?” The answer gives me great insight into his character and how he would potentially treat me. Remember the Bible says, “So shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife.” Matt. 19:5. No one wants to enter into a family full of drama or a family that is extremely difficult to warm up too. When your mate encounters this type of atmosphere they are likely to jump ship quick. You can’t blame them. It is not a far stretch of the imagination for them to see themselves receiving the same treatment you dish out.  I know that some people believe that the family of your mate, and your mate, is no longer a packaged deal; I would venture to say that kind of ideology has contributed to the divorce rate.

So if you find that you have a lot of great qualities going for yourself and you’re still single, try looking at your family dynamics and see what it’s telling your mate.

#takemyfoolishadvice you don’t want to introduce the person you are dating to your family too soon. Take your time to get to know your partner and allow them to do the same, especially if your family dynamics is less then desirable.

Beloved,

AWalk

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How to accessorizes without jewelry?

How to accessorizes without jewelry?

Spring is here and I love all the fresh new colors and bold accessories women and men are wearing. There’s so many eye catching and flattering pieces I can’t wait to incorporate into my wardrobe.

There is just one problem, I don’t wear jewelry! I don’t even wear a watch.

Sometimes when I am wearing a really cute outfit I still feel plain, like I blend right into the crowd. Blending into the crowd is not in my personality. Still, I just feel like there’s still something missing- that oomph, that wow factor, that pizazz and jazz, that swagger. You get what I’m saying. So how does one accessorizes without jewelry? I had to think of accessories as just that, accessories, not the main course but a tease on the way there. And that translated to head wraps, head bands, decorative head clips, funky and fresh make-up, stunner sun glasses, scarfs, purses, divalicious gloves, belts, and fly foot wear. Of course I don’t wear these all at once but when added to a really cute outfit, I instantly upgrade to chic.

In the past I have played it very safe as far as my color palette, but now I’m ready to take control of my appearance and present myself with a more famine and softer appeal. Good bye black, neutral and gray and say hello to teal, yellow, reds, oranges, greens and whites.

I’m still having a blast thrifting. I love everything and anything vintage. It also works well for my wallet. Here are some photos from this months O magazine, grab your copy today and be inspired.

 

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#takemyfoolishadvice and give your wardrobe a shot in the arm with some accessories and bold colors this season. But most of all have tons of fun doing it.

Beloved,

AWalk

For more of my style evolution click Style Notice (www.takemyfoolishadvice.com)

Jesus Resurrection = Promise

Easter doesn’t mean bunny rabbits and egg hunts to me anymore. Instead it’s a reminder that Jesus died for me, little ole me, and me personally. I have come to love Jesus’s death and resurrection more and more because of the promise Jesus wrote to me in a love letter. “In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for. If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself, that where I am, there you may be also.” John 14:2-3

I hold that promise dear to my heart and it gives me hope and joy and love and peace knowing God wants me to be with Him, in Heaven; and not just me but those that I love as well.

#takemyfoolishadvice read God’s love letters to you some time, you just might come across a promise that He wrote to YOU.  

Beloved,

AWalk

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